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Just out of curiosity when are the board members up for re election

That's a valid point.

Losers this is in response to a message from you a while back. The problem is with the fact that when board members and teachers are having affairs is does alter the teaching ability. It removes certain consequences for the teachers because then it becomes less likely to be disciplined by the board or even possibly administration. In case you haven't noticed they seem to have no problem doing whatever they want to. Who's going to discipline someone they're sleeping with or who their buddy is sleeping with?

So what's the latest news on getting these people out. Board members can remove teachers as far as I know. Who's running for school board? These people need to go.

UH OH!

Here you go. I see a bad moon rising, I see trouble on the way.

uqaphele makes a valid point. Karma gets everybody and people don't always do what we think they will. Why risk losing what you have? It's to easy for people to make it to where you lose your kids, job, peace of mind etc... Why take that chance instead of working on being happy and enjoying what God has brought to your life? Life's tough sometimes and we're not always happy with what's going on or who we're with sometimes. GROW UP people think about your kids.

What's even more sad is that people sometimes think they can't go back because of how it might look. Totally disregarding how the kids feel and what they have to deal with.

People usually don't realize until it's too late uqaphele. Lose things they never thought possible over selfishness.

I might not know these people but I can give something to think about. Yes God doesn't end marriages and He wants people to reconcile. Yes the kids deserve it. Here's the thing, I didn't realize things until later. My suggestion is if anyone has a spouse that wants to work things out then do it. I didn't, thinking it would never work because feelings weren't the same. That was just an excuse because everybody knows that people can regain what they had. If your spouse is trying then try too. Don't think that people can't take things from you or won't. I kept refusing and he finally quit talking as much. That's not a good thing. Time creates resentment. People forget how easy it is to lose everything. I thought it couldn't happen because we had paperwork but I was wrong. I didn't think of all I had to lose until it was gone (reputation, career, kids, even peace). Nobody has anybodys back anymore. Just because they act as if they do doesn't mean anything. If it brings something on them then that's it. Sometimes they dont even have a choice. Might not be what people want to hear but sometimes for a person to really keep what they have it's better to work things out despite how they might feel. If kids are involved then your joined together through them anyway. Kids deserve parents together. Nobody wins in a divorce. The question is what is willing to be lost? From personal experience.

I'm not here to offend anyone either. I really do pray for the families and that they reconcile and the kids don't have to suffer that way. I pray that they live for God so that they may enjoy life. Unequally yoked is one thing but when the two are Christians and one slip's it's another. All I'm doing is raising questions in hopes it gets people thinking more for God and their children than themselves.

I am not saying for 1 second it is God’s will. But I am not God and I don’t know the situation. God also speaks of being unequally yoked... I mean, there is no doubt that God would like for us all to be saved and live the right way. I wish I didn’t sin each day . But I do, but I don’t need someone pouting out those sins on social media for all to see. This is why people hesitate to come to church and get saved and become Christians. They look at these sites and the way ppl who call themselves Christians are acting and say, “if that’s what being a Christian is all about, I want no part of it.” I intend to offend no one here.

losers if it's the same ones then maybe. All I'm suggesting is that maybe you do before you cast judgement. Talk to the kids even. As you have stated things aren't always what they seem. That goes both ways.
Boduke1966 I'm not here to judge anybody. I pray for the family unit. I pray for God's will to be done. Knowing what the Bible says about this and about reconciliation, I don't think it's God's will that these things happen do you? I pray for the families to come together stronger than ever. To live for God and put Him first. When one does that He blesses them as He has promised He would.

I'm not ashamed stressedout1. I know we all sin. I also know people blame other people for choices they make good or bad. When people do wrong they try to justify it however they can. Through unhappiness, misery or even try to say God's OK with it.

Can I just say that God is the only one that has the right to judge these people. God and the people living these lives are the only ones that know what go on behind closed doors. If we want to help we should be praying for God’s will to be done, not our Will. We should be praying for the entire family unit. Not slamming one party or the other or calling them out by name no less on this ridiculous site. And yes I hide behind a computer screen because frankly I am ashamed of myself for reading such garbage. So that makes me as guilty as the rest, but at least I own it.

Have you talked to both parties!

It's easy to say things to try and justify ones actions. People do it all the time. One has to know the source and still ask the other before assuming that what's been said is true. God still doesnt end marriages. He still wants us to be close to Him. So one can't justify their actions through God when they go against what He says.

You keep talking about a violent home. Since I know some of these couples I would assume that I know what your talking about. I would suggest you talk to both parties to find out what all has happened and what all has been said. Since I'm assuming that it's the same maybe you don't know what you think you know. Definitely seems like your biased towards one. If it's the same, I can assure you it's not a violent home and you can even ask the kids.

All the ones preaching needs to also read their Bible! You are the ones hiding others which is not very Christian like either! So in my option all of you idiots need to read up! This is the dumbest thing I have ever read on a public site! Go volunteer and be productive with your time! I would be ashamed!

I'll agree to disagree because I don't believe it's God intention to keep a wife or her kids in a violent home. Seen to much of it lead to death and despair don't believe that's Gods intent but that's my belief