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Dear board members and teachers. Ethics and Morals are issues that need to be addressed. It is not something that should be allowed to happen or continue to happen without consequences. All it is showing the kids is that you can do whatever you want and not worry about it. That sort of mindset is what's wrong with society today. As far as the relationships go I hope that the marriages are salvaged. A marriage is worth keeping no matter what especially if there are kids involved. I know the Collins family and the Loggins family. Every marriage has ups and downs and some worse than others. I felt my marriage had been horrible for years, I blamed him for all sorts of things, thought we were two totally different people, couldnt get along and I was miserable. I took our kids and left. I pushed for things and cut links between us not even realizing how I was treating him. It didn't matter about our kids because it was all about what I wanted and how I felt. I put our kids in a position that no kid deserves to be in because I was being selfish and thinking that things would be ok with time. I did what I thought was right by our kids and my husband but I actually didnt. I tried to say that it was ok and even ok with God. So I took charge and took God right out of it and didnt even realize it. If I had stopped and put God first and then my husband we never would have split. I forced oir kids to have to lose time with their father. As time went on the time and events that our kids miseed out on were with both of us. Holidays were horrible. Time went by and I finally realized that the problems we had were not limited to just us. They are in EVERY relationship. The fact is that karma gets everybody eventually. If you hurt someone a certain way then someone's going to hurt you and usually it's worse. It took me a long time to realize that I actually had everything I needed to begin with. A loyal husband and devoted father. Thats a real man. Someone that will be there no matter what. Money, career and status are all superficial illusions. They are nice but not everything and will never take place of someone that would be there no matter what. Start looking for that and you only get hurt. People that are about that are people that only care about that and not you. I wasn't missing out on anything. I was mad at myself and how things were going and took it out on him and hurt our kids in the process. The kids seemed ok because I kept telling myself that they would be with time but later I realized what i had done to them. All they wanted and deserved was their mom and dad together. They never get over that. He wasnt a mind reader and I shut down thinking we couldnt talk. Not realizing thats all he wanted to do. The grass is never greener on the other side its just grass. We even got back together but when he passed away it hit again. Everything that I had done, lost, walked away from and had done to our kids. I pray that you dont be so stubborn to not let God take over and mend your marriages and not let what other people do or say keep you from realizing what you have and through God it will be wonderful. That's GOD'S promise. Please pass this on to everyone involved.

That's exactly the problem. People don't have any morals anymore. What they do have is diluted by what society thinks is the new norm. These teachers and board members have ethics to go by as well. Start a petition as well as filling at any forms and going through all proper channels.

You know what ? I’m really sick to death of you people taking up for these ppl. If you know for a fact they are going out in their husbands and wife’s they have no business in the position they are in. That’s what is wrong today we have got too Luke warm w God. It’s ok to do this or that ! I bet the ones talking that crap have never been the victim of an extra marital affair . And you want to talk about the kids. Was the one doing the screwing around thinking about the kids when he done it ? No he wasn’t! Where is the moral compass esp for those in charge

I'm not ashamed. I happen to know both of whom I was talking about. Have for a long time. That's why no name. Not for my benefit but for theirs I was setting things straight. Someone seems to be telling things in a way that would only make them look good. Which is the reason why I said what I said. Again, I know both and have for a long time. There is an ethics and morals issue. Maybe if people lived more for God than themselves then there wouldn't be certain issues. Maybe that was what people were getting at.

Everyone wanted to talk about God earlier now they want to preach morals and ethics.like everyone has different standards you can't do this because your here or you can do this because your there!BULL ****T! Would you want your children to see this site? No morals or ethics on this site no where maybe that's why everyone hides their name because they are ashamed.

FYI 2017 what's the serious reason? I'm not sure exactly what you think you know,have read or simply been told. I think you need to talk to her husband and see if he'll clue you in on what all has transpired in their relationship and about the serious reason as you call it. Maybe he can clue you in on board members and teachers as well. What all she has went through, really? I guarantee that if he were to talk about things, you would not have the same opinion about him or her. After everything, he's still wanting to work on things. So what does that tell you. Wanting to do the right thing by their family. Think about that before you say someone had a serious reason. Actual knowledge is the key. Losers, your behind a screen name like the rest of us. It doesn't matter about screen names. The topic is still about the lack of ethics and morals from individuals that are expected to handle themselves better. There is a code of ethics.

But first take the log out of your on eye so you can see more clearly to remove the splinter from your brother eye.

Then stand up and be seen don't hide behind your computer.

Guess that's your real name losers. Sorry if your missing the point and think I'm throwing stones. Sorry if you think it's okay to have ethic's and moral issues continue to occur at a level that should be held to a higher standard. Yes I do sin. Will continue to do so. Just because I don't agree with what's going on and want a change doesn't mean I'm throwing stones. Simply standing up for what I think is right.

I agree social media is the worst, people use it to hide their identity so they can slander and talk about people behide their backs like a true hypocrite! So I guess medic11 and slow rider have not sinned since they keep throwing stones.

That's exactly right. Snapchat is worse than anything. Social media is ruining people. To easy to be envious, cheat or whatever. Turning good people into different people and they don't even realize it. What's wrong with having better expectations from people. Especially from elected officials or teachers. I know people make mistakes but when they continue and think that people should just be okay with it then it needs to be addressed. People need to get grow up and get their heads right. Selfishness destroys people and families. God doesnt do it. So if you say you believe in God and if your one of these people being talked about then I would suggest that you take a good look at yourself and ask if what you are doing follows God's words. Free will doesn't mean do what's best for you even if it goes against God. If your married, find what makes you happy. Don't split up just because your not happy. Find out what makes you unhappy and work on it. That's what mature people do. Living for God will help tremendously. Not just saying you do or going to church to just be seen at church.

I think that may be some of the point. Kids are mean and have a very different mindset these days. Social media can ruin people. Whether it's marriages or whatever. People get so consumed in it that it takes the place of what should be more important. That's bad enough. It should not take place by people that have direct influence on them. Board members Teachers etc. I sin myself. I am talking more about showing Ethics, Morals and Character. The things that kids need to see. Not a free for all. If people want to talk about God that's great. I encourage them too. I think we need more of it. Everything flows better with Him. Where one might see encouragement another may see as judgement. I think its sad when someone commits adultery or splits up a family and thinks it's okay with God. It show's selfishness is all. I'm praying for them to live for God and not just by how they may feel. The Ethics and Morals issue still needs addressing either way.

takemeouttotheballgame is right-- I have considered even commenting again because this is nothing but a joke to you people. You all don't care who you hurt in the process... You all only care about feeding into the drama for yourselves. its funny how the first commenters that started this thread have "disappeared"--- they are the worst ones... probably sitting back laughing at the madness they have started. I have said before and will say again... Social media was/is not the place for this. these peoples kids are seeing this.. do you not think that these kids could be bullied and ridiculed at school? if you think otherwise you are blind or ignorant... kids are mean and very outspoken these days. I would hate to go to school and my friends ask me "what's going on with your mom and dad", "I heard he/she was having an affair"--- if you need something productive to do there is always trash on the side of the road that needs to be cleaned up...

A hypocrite is one who veiws someone else as being a worse sinner than them self. I am the biggest sinner I know and so are you. We are all big sinners. James 2:10 says to be guilty of even one sin makes us guilty of all! I am not condoning sin, I am saying that a hypocrite is someone who looks down on another person in SELF-RIGHTEOUS JUDGMENT! Does this sound like anyone you people know just asking? Proverb 11:9 calls hypocrisy.What right does anyone have to sit in judgment upon another? The hypocrites were the Pharisees,who brought a woman to Jesus,who had been caught in the very act of adultery (allegedly).The Pharisees wanted her stoned to death. Jesus asked who amongst them was without sin. No one could answer. From the eldest to the youngest they departed,and Jesus forgave the woman of her sin.

takemeouttotheballgame, if people followed what God said to do and not whatever they felt like doing then they probably wouldn't be in this position to begin with.

All things aside, the topic is still the ethics and morals issue. Does seem to be a serious one too. Obviously, these people seem to have problems doing the right thing. Again, they need to be removed from their positions.

The hypocrisy on this post is so absurd it’s almost humorous! You spew gossip and rumors in one breath, then you talk about God in the next one! This forum has become the laughing stock of Alleghany and surrounding counties. Instead of taking the right approach to address these board members, you get on here and have a pissing contest to see who can out do the last rumor. If some of you spent as much time worrying about yourselves as you do the people you have made all of these accusations against, you might find a few skeletons you thought were buried that may come back to haunt you.

No not try again, some people know and some just think they do. Not sure what your job is but unless you know both parties and know what has gone on then it doesn't matter. Sounds like you may be a little sympathetic towards her. Not sure, but maybe talk to him too. Then draw your own conclusion. May change your mind.

Wow2017! Nope try again. My job Requires me to know things

Sounds to me like you need to be enlightened on some facts yourself FYI 2017. What she went through. More like what she put him through. Everybody knows that a woman has it made. All they have to do is tear up and then everybody thinks that something terrible has happened. Make an alligation, go to court, can't prove anything, still get your way and take the kid/kids away. Happens all the time. Might want to talk to both parties before you think you know anything about their relationship. Sure there has been tough times but it's a marriage. It happens. He's still wanting to work on things. What does that tell you. Sounds like trying to do the right thing by the family and not have their daughter grow up in a split family. That type of child hood isn't any fun. No matter what you do you can't fix the damage it does to a kid. Only way is to get back together and live for God. That's it.